With your relationship of pheromones and not get stuck in the past. So both of us have really enjoyed writing this edition, we are going to talk about one of the most important insights into building a successful relationship. This concept, is called our primary storyÂÂ and we are going to look into your primary story about men and relationships. Learn more at http://chrshrt112.typepad.com/blog/2015/09/mass-trapping-the-pheromones.html . No man wants me because Im just too cool for all the men that Ive met.ÂÂ Thats a story. Is it true? All the men Ive met are emotionally unavailable, or dont take any responsibility at all with pheromones.ÂÂ Is this true? Are men all just one dimensional like that? And if you believe that, then what does that say about yourself?
By the way, cant you inspire a man to become more emotional mature? Or are you not enough as a woman to do so? What about men just want sex, thats all they ever want!!!ÂÂ I can promise you right now, that this one is definitely and completely false. But if you tell that story to yourself, then all your life experiences will be filtered by that story and as a result, experience hurt, rejection and youll even sabotage your relationship with a good man.
Now hows that for a story? And she hasnt even reached adulthood. My question here is, did Oprah let those events in her life define who she is today? Did she sit down and let herself become a victim? The answer is an obvious no. But instead, the story she told herself was that now she had more life experience to share and connect with other women. She could connect on a deeper level with other women more than she could ever have without those life experiencesÂÂ. By the way, which story was true with his pheromones? I cant be in a relationship because I dont even have to fill in the rest of that sentence because whatever comes after it will always be an excuse of some sort. Im settling for this relationship because And the story that you tell yourself will always follow with greater phermones.
Remember, all of us are defined by the stories we tell ourselves. When we change our story, we change our experiences in life. Think about Oprah for a moment. You may already know her story, but let me just give you a few facts about Oprah. Her mother was an alcoholic, and she misspelled Oprahs name at birth. It was supposed to be Orpah, meaning young gazelle but in a state of intoxication and confusion, she mixed up the letters r and p. Oprah was physically and sexually abused as a child, and became pregnant at the age of 13. To make matters worse, she gave birth to a still born.
What do you remember of all the road rules you had to learn before you qualified for your driving license? You see, concepts are difficult for us to grasp without the help of stories. It is the stories that us humans can relate to. So how does this relate to your relationship of natural pheromones? Well, right now, you have a story in your head about how your relationship is supposed to be, how your man is supposed to be, or why your relationships are going the way theyre going. All of us have a story we tell ourselves, or a set of stories we tell ourselves about why our love life is the way it is.
